"The most important thing will be to find a trustworthy practitioner of magic. Ask questions. Prioritize Practical or Natural magic over Chaos or Eldritch. Get to know the mage well, in the way you might a pre-natal doctor or midwife. Keep your wants for the process flexible, but make sure you are being heard about them," Mortanne advises. "But if you find a good match for the mage performing the spell, you shouldn't need to do anything else besides trust and wait."