"I'm gonna tell you the same thing I told Ylva over there," he motions to his girlfriend a few tables away. "There are more people sitting around these tables that feel like they don't know what they're doing than who do. And, yeah, it can really feel like everyone's playing with a rule book you haven't been given but the truth is you shouldn't try to be what you're not at these things anyway. Edgar, you're a caring, fun, and fiercely loyal friend and anyone who doesn't give you a chance is going to be the one missing out."